Why people get pictures and spend so much money on all of that stuff. Why would someone do that?
I dunno I guess the thought of engagement pictures is nice and all. But at the same point I don’t see the point.
Just like I think it is almost better to just elope than have a huge hoopla. I’m not a fan of hoopla. To me I would think that just a plain dress you get at pennys would be fine instead of a super expensive wedding dress.
I don’t think doing the whole church wedding is for me either, I would like doing it a park, a small wedding and then maybe a potluck BBQ after. I’m just so weird. I guess its cause I’m not mushy and I’m a super cheap person.
I’m probably not the most traditional person, but I guess that isn’t what matters. What matters is how the boy and I want to do things eventually.
Last night we were watching parenthood on demand. And the girls on the show were all hyped about going to prom. I was home schooled I never had a prom. I did have opportunities to go to dances. But I didn’t want all the hype. All the stupid frilly dresses I didn’t have money for. It just didn’t matter to me. My mom never was into it either. And the boy he wasn’t into it either. It just all seems so pointless.
I guess its all like traditions. But I like to make my own traditions. Its not about just going with what everyone else has done. Its about doing things how you want, the way you see it. Its better I think that way. More individualized I feel is much better.